What am I supposed to say in response to the quiz results? Gosh, this is eerily accurate to the point that it scares me... =s

EDIT-
I like this quote from Marilyn Monroe. Never knew that a long dead movie star and one time sex symbol can have such a profound impact on me. Ha...

"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you learn to appreciate them when they're right. You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself...and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."

Have a good night, my beloved people.

Labels: Quizzes

To my Ah Gong, with love.

I know we are all feeling a little bit sad,
That we've lost our Ah gong, our friend and our dad
Together we have cried an ocean of tears
As we feel so empty and hold many fears

But Ah gong would want us to know he's in a good place
And that he's watching us all with a smile on his face
As we have made him so proud, as proud as can be
That he has raised such a beautiful and special family

Thinking back now I really must say
I feel lucky and privileged to have known
Ah gong to this day
For in my life, you have played a special part
The memories I will treasure and keep close to my heart

For me I am glad us as little babies he got to meet
And for all of us, be grateful, his life is now complete
To each one of us he has loved and cared
And as a family, be thankful for the good times we shared

Although he has gone we will always be together
And his spirit will live on each one of us forever
When you look to the sky, look for the brightest star
As that will be Ah gong looking down on us from afar

And now I would like to thank the good Lord above
For blessing us with our Ah gong with his kindness and love
Dear God, if it is not too much to ask
Take extra special care of our Ah gong as he is very dear to us

Ah gong if you are listening say a prayer for us every day
Be sure to protect us and guide us on our way
We know when God called you, you had to go
But we want you to know Ah gong we miss you and love you so

Labels: Grandpa, Grief

Labels: Love

What does marriage mean to you?

Or rather, what does commitment mean to you?
For example, I don't believe in divorce. Neither do I throw in the towel easily.

I believe that as long as both parties are willing, things can always work out. If you were together once, it means that you once had something in common. And no matter how bad things were, it can always be resolved.

I am the sort of person who doesn't forget a friend. Once my friend, always my friend.
I know, I make it sound like a death sentence.

But still. It would take overwhelmingly startling evidence that you're despicable, before I give up on someone I know.

I mean, I would help my friend drag a dead body to dispose of if she explained the reason behind why she did it. In my eyes, my friends will always get the benefit of the doubt with me.

I will never forgo a friend.
I think it may be because I grew up with so little familial influence, that my friends inevitably became my family instead. I sought comfort from them, I derived who I became from aspects of my friends that I thought good. I have a little bit of all my friends in me.

In other words, I am one of a kind. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

Okay, no, I did not go one big round just to praise myself.

What I want to point out is, that I don't give up easily. I'll always make an effort to reconcile with the people I care about...

Unless they make me despise them la, that's a different story.

So you know, I know it's different for everyone. Are you the kind who would let a friend drift away, just because you're too lazy to pop a call, or to send a text?

Because if you are, I hope you make more of an effort if and when you choose to have a life with someone else.

Thank you for being my friend :)

Labels: Friends, raMdoN