Here's the second installment to the 20-QUESTIONS POST!

#12: Do you have a crush on one of your current schoolmate?

I don’t know. I really don’t. It’s a - I have a bit of feelings for her yet not to an extent of having a crush sort of feeling. A crush is when somehow I just know I really like someone.


#13: Would you ever go out on a date with a girl who asks you out?

I’ll definitely agree to go out if she’s someone I know. But I’ll only ever consider it a date when and if I have feelings for the girl I’m going out with. Otherwise, it’s just hanging out and spending time with a friend.


#14: Do you think that love can exist without selfishness, jealousy, fights, quarrels, and most importantly, sex?
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#15: Can everyone co-exist with everyone else peacefully? Is it really that easy to get along with somebody?


I really believe that love can exist without sex. Sex is just a process of reproduction. Sex is just an act of lust. As for selfishness, jealousy, fights and quarrels, a couple’s relationship will only grow stronger when they go through such times together and better learn about one another. Love is about accepting someone despite their flaws and always wanting the best for him/her. So sometimes, that results in quarrels. Fights may not always be a bad thing.
It’s not easy to get along with anyone. Some people are just assholes no matter how hard you try to work your differences out. So no, it’s quite impossible for everyone to co-exist peacefully. We can only hope that the leaders of whichever country aren’t assholes themselves. Getting along with anyone takes effort. Always try to look at their strengths rather than their weaknesses and learn to appreciate them for who they are. If they insist or ever start bitching about you, let them be. You don’t have to degrade yourself to their level. You can never please the whole world, don’t try.


#16: What about a girl turns you off/on and why?

A turn off..

1) Any girl who swears or has frequent bitch fits
2) Always doing or saying things just to attract attention
3) Thinks she knows every damn thing
4) Flirts with people just to get her way
5) Talks or writes in the cutesy twits lingo
6) Girls who always do the whole reverse psychology and gets pissed off when they don’t get the response they were hoping for (i.e "I think im fat.. am I?". If you think you're fat, you are! Don’t ask!).
7) Girls who tries too hard be sexy when they really shouldn’t cross the line of decency
8) Speaks with a really fake wannabe-ish accent
9) When she's drunk
10) Airheads.


A turn on..

1) Exudes confidence but not arrogance
2) Articulate and eloquent
3) Has her own special dress sense/style
4) Has that bit of demure nature about her?
5) When she smiles (then again, its subjective)
6) Intellectual, tactful, sweet
7) Plays hard to get (but it’s not cool when it’s overdone or when she's just misleading the poor dude)
8) A girl one can have a meaningful conversation with
9) Independent, yet somewhat vulnerable and innocent
10) If she meets at least 7 out of the 10 things I defined that makes a girl hot


#17: Who do you think (of the current people you know) best fits the bill of your ideal girlfriend?

Shannon and Tze Tsian. Actually, it's more like Shannon as the ideal girlfriend and Tze Tsian as the ideal future wife. Haha! But i'm not ready or interested in getting attached at the moment.


#18: Name 5 things you'd like to change about yourself.

1) I wish I was built bigger. I've always wanted to be at least 75kg. (Which works out to be an impossible 14kg more to pile on, baby!)
2) I wish I was born naturally smart. The don’t-really-study-yet-ace-papers sort.
3) I wish I'd not be so critically judgmental all the time.
4) I wish I had some dress sense.
5) I'd want to be a better Christian, one who is more connected with God.


#19: What are the qualities you look for in friendships?
I've often talked about friendship in previous entries and I will continue to in future ones. So I'll just tell you what to me, is the most important quality in friendships.. trust.


#20: Do you believe in love at first sight?
I don’t. You may be attracted to a person’s image, but you can never call it love. Everyone shouldn’t use the word “love” so loosely.


#21: Would you rather a flat or voluptuous girlfriend?
I personally find this question redundant. But if you must know, I honestly don’t care. I like athletic girls and they usually aren't very well endowed. So, it doesn't matter.


#22: What to you is your ideal marriage lifestyle?
Ideal marriage would be one where my wife and I will always be completely honest, trust and love each other unconditionally comewhatmay. In terms of lifestyle, it would be a lifetime of joy and happiness doing things with the family. Having a boy and a girl would be perfect.