Monday, February 16, 2009
I came across two news articles related to money recently. One explored the link between material wealth and happiness. The other related a seemingly different mindset between Asians and Australians when it comes to the money issue. It seems that for most Asians, the topic of money dominates most conversations. As for the Australians, they were more preoccupied with other social and non-wealth related topics.
Putting one and one together, these articles intrigue me because I tend to agree we are too engrossed in accumulating wealth. Money can buy us the luxurious coupe, dream home or even that long overdue holiday. However, couples have broken up, marriages have failed and even families have been destroy directly or indirectly due to money. This really highlights the power the money can bring about at both ends of the spectrum.
I believe as we go in search of material wealth, we should also keep stock of our balance in life. I have to admit I belong to the group who sometimes get too blinded with money that I'd offer to take on extra job assignments or work overtime (LOL @ Shaowei) to feed my extravagant lifestyle.. No, the allowance from my parents is hardly enough to last me the week. However, what about my parents, family and hobbies? These aspects of my life becomes neglected and when one looks back what is the point of having so much money when it cannot buy love and kinship?
I've heard of a self-made millionaire businessman, the father of my ex-classmate. Even before selling his electronics business, he had already amassed a pile of wealth which many can only long for. However, all his children have either migrated or are overseas studying. When it came to festive holidays, he would readily invite employees to his home. His frequent invitations came about because he was worried of boredom. This is because his sprawling mansion is occupied by only his wife, a couple of maids, himself and a huge dose of loneliness.
We work so hard so whether we want to scrimp and save or splurge and enjoy is our prerogative. However, I believe money may be a common denominator but it is not the only thing that makes our life worthwhile. Material wealth can bring contentment but only a balanced spiritual and emotional state can bring about a higher level of true happiness.
On a side note: I think I need to buy a girlfriend. To up my emotional ante!
You, my paramour? NEVER!Labels: Money, World
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